The Fabric of Unity
"Framily" Survey
(Friends & Family)
© 2007 Larry Lachman and Diane Grindol
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Anonymous survey for our new book!

I would appreciate it if you would take a few moments and participate in our anonymous survey by answering the few questions below.

With your help we are compiling qualitative/quantitative empirical data for Diane Grindol's and my new book: The Fabric of Unity.

Thank you.
Dr.Larry

1. How do you define a friend? 2. How do you define family? 3. How are your friends different from your family? 4. How are your friends similar to your family? 5. Describe a time when you chose to rely on a friend instead of family. 6. What age were you when you did this? Why did you turn to a friend instead of family? 7. Have you ever had a health crisis and had to rely on a friend? If so, please describe it. 8. What was your friend's reaction to that? 9. What was your family's reaction to that? 10. What benefits (emotional, physical, social, spiritual) do you get from your friends that are different than you get from your family? 11. When you're feeling low or isolated, do you reach out to friends or family, and why? 12. Describe which group (friends of family) has been the most help in learning how to get along with others or in learning a job skill. 13. Have you or a friend ever been, or ever had, a Big Brother or Big Sister? Describe that experience. 14. Describe experiences you know about where friends have had a negative influence on someone (as in violent street gangs). 15. Describe an experience where your best friend, or someone else's best friend, was a pet. For the following questions, Please enter the number which best represents your view. 1: Not Helpful | 2: Least Helpful | 3: Moderately Helpful | 4: Highly Helpful | 5: Most Helpful 16. When you have been sick, how helpful have your friends been? 17. When you feel low, or isolated, how helpful have your friends been? 1: Not Helpful | 2: Least Helpful | 3: Moderately Helpful | 4: Highly Helpful | 5: Most Helpful 18. When you learned to socialize with other people, how helpful were your friends? 1: Not Helpful | 2: Least Helpful | 3: Moderately Helpful | 4: Highly Helpful | 5: Most Helpful 19. When you can't be with your family for holidays, how helpful have your friends been? 1: Not Helpful | 2: Least Helpful | 3: Moderately Helpful | 4: Highly Helpful | 5: Most Helpful 20. When you're learning a new job, or trying to stay out of trouble, how helpful have your friends been? 1: Not Helpful | 2: Least Helpful | 3: Moderately Helpful | 4: Highly Helpful | 5: Most Helpful Security Code Type the text you see in the image to the left. Not Case Sensitive - Lowercase is acceptable.

A teacher affects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops.

-- Henry Brooks Adams